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Trust in the Lord with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy paths.
-Proverbs 3

Ever wondered about if you can find ‘the one?’ And maybe wondered if God cares about this particular aspect of your life, or if there’s some prayer that might help?

Your life isn’t a game of connect-the-dots, with ‘the one’ being a dot you hope to reach. God’s guidance of your life isn’t changeable or conditional. Through studying and practicing Christian Science, I’ve learned that unchanging Principle (a synonym for God) will do much more than help you. Its our growing understanding of God which illuminates the presence of all good, including love, in our lives.

I was dating someone, and I really thought she was ‘the one.’ The problem was, she had just told me that she felt we should just be friends. This didn’t seem like an effective detour on the road to happiness together. We continued to spend the next week hanging out and we still had a really nice time just being friends. After she left, though, I kept praying for us to get back together.

After another week of that kind of prayer, I finally realized my thought was focused on what I knew I wanted, rather than asking what God knew, and she and I discussed this together. Now, for the first time, I prayed to know what God knew, rather than how to make this person love me. I became filled with a very strong sense of the need to let go – let go of my definition of how things needed to go, let go of my fears of another relationship down the tubes, let go of trying to make something happen.

This uplifting prayer continued all night, and brought such a sense of peace. I felt so sure of the unconditional presence of divine Love. I realized that God’s guidance wasn’t going to fit in that connect-the-dots analogy. Rather, this growing assurance of the omnipotence of Love made it clear that I would never be lost or outside of good. Along with this, all fear about losing ‘the one’ had vanished.

We continued to grow and to support each other through various trials, and our friendship soon blossomed into marriage. My guidance in this relationship hasn’t been God pulling or pushing me through various options. Instead, the more aware I am of the presence of Love, the more clear it is that I could never lose love – and I love to be with her as we continue to explore together.

Do you have any stories of how you’ve seen God’s guidance – in love, career, weekend plans? Please share – I’d love to hear your stories, insights, and questions!

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-i took both photos in this post, using the Instagram app on iPhone, while on a hike up to South Sister, near Bend, Oregon, USA-

Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest? And do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it. For the pagan world runs after all such things, and your Father knows that you need them. But seek his kingdom, and these things will be given to you as well. Do not be afraid, little flock, for your Father has been pleased to give you the kingdom. (Luke 12:25, 26, 29-32 NIV)

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Isn’t that beautiful? Not just someone’s father. YOUR Father. Your Father, Mother, God is not waiting around for you to come around. God is not tapping His toes till you say the right prayer, or looking sadly down on you, wishing you’d really believe.

What IS God doing? God is loving His children; cherishing Her little flock, who depend entirely (if sometimes unknowingly) on God.

Does all the trying really hard, or all the worrying, or all the opinionated debating, or all the religiously motivated conflict, make God love us any more, or any less? If all our thought, all our worry, can’t add even one hour to this earthly experience, then how could our struggles and conflicts make a difference for actually acquiring success? Will worrying increase our ability to rest peacefully, or help us know that we are secure?

In a posting like this, filled with questions, you might think I’d have an answer to close off with. I don’t. Instead, I have an invitation for you to open the rest of your day with. Consider what it would be like, if your life was actually the effect of the existence of divine Life itself. Don’t try to ‘manifest what you want’ or live some kind of prosperity gospel. Instead, just see what it’s like to live as the effect of a Truth that is already complete. Cease your worries, even just for five minutes, and see what it is like to LISTEN for who you are, instead of trying to create yourself.

Try living out what Jesus was talking about, in the excerpt of the Sermon on the Mount that introduced this post. See what it is like, to live secure in the knowledge that you are deeply loved.

You might enjoy this musical offering about the depth of living this secure, restful confidence.

Twitter users often type a # sign to mark the following word as significant and easily searchable for anyone looking for specific topics.  Called hashtags, these symbols essentially call attention to one’s specific post, like shining a spotlight, that anyone could fairly easily search for.  Some hashtags, like #enjoythisday or simply the word #peace, help people discover new insights on those topics, as people share what #peace means to them.  How to use hashtags effectively takes practice, for sure!  But I’ve enjoyed using them, and sometimes they have even helped me share inspiration with a much broader audience.  For instance, several months ago I linked to this song I’ve shared below, and described it using the hashtag #joy.  That evening, the publisher of an online paper called Spiritualevity Today  found my post (because they track posts all across Twitter using that #joy hashtag) and shared this song with their whole audience.  It was really inspiring to see how a simple descriptive word could direct so many people to something.

 

Now, this is all very fun, and I’m sure you’re glad to know more about hashtags, if you didn’t before…but what relation would a Twitter search function have to anything outside of Twitter?

It’s sort of strange, actually.  Recently, as I was waking up, the thought came: “What are you a hashtag for?”  I have certainly never thought of myself as a hashtag, or a web address, or an @, or anything like that, so this thought took me by surprise.  But I really enjoy diving into these thoughts, no matter how odd they seem on the surface.

What I discovered in that dive was a unique parable, shining new light on a familiar idea.  A hashtag points people to a specific topic.  It’s not the hashtag ITSELF that is important, but the substance – the source, perhaps – behind that hashtag.  Therefore, if I’m considering myself as a hashtag, it raises the question: are my actions, words, thoughts – my life – all about ME?  Or do they point people to my source, my substance?  And if so, what source do they point to?

This train of thought immediately made me think of a key sentence in the first chapter of the book of Genesis, in the Bible.  It reads, “So God created man in His own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.” (Genesis 1:27 NIV Study Bible)  That’s a pretty clear statement of source!  Now, I don’t see this as just some pretty words – the truth of that statement is what inspires and impels my work and my life, and I see the fruition of that truth every day.  There’s another idea in a book I love to study along with the Bible, Science & Health with Key to the Scriptures, by Mary Baker Eddy, which also shines a bright light on this foundational Bible passage.  It reads, “Man is not God, but like a ray of light which comes from the sun, man, the outcome of God, reflects God.” (p. 250)  The outcome of God!  The reflection and expression of divine goodness!  So there, I realized, was the “code” behind me being a hashtag: it’s not me, in and of myself, that’s important, but rather I get to realize that I’m the immediate expression and outcome of God.  As we all are!  In other words, in a spiritual search, #John should direct thought right back to God, without anything unGodlike muddying up the connection.

So if we, as the expressions and ideas of God, all point thought back to God, then there can’t truly be anything about ourselves which would point the opposite direction.  Now, this is certainly an interesting and fresh way for me to look at and choose my behavior and thoughts – is this choice something that goes along with my nature as a hashtag to God?  But it also applies to things which many people don’t believe we have a choice about, or are simply subject to – things like illness, poverty, depression, pride, anger…  But all these things are certainly not the outcome of God, who is described elsewhere in the Bible as Love itself.  Again, I and many others have certainly seen the truth of God’s nature as Love expressed in our own lives!

So, if those qualities or thoughts aren’t of God, then how could God’s effects (you and me) include them as a part of our make-up?  It would be like having a hashtag of #health_sickness or #joy_hate; the two just don’t go together.  Being that hashtag pointing to God really means we have to be made up of one essential substance, rather than two or more conflicting ones.  Since God is my source – the source and Creator of all of us – we never have to give in to the suggestion of anything otherwise.

Of course there’s much more diving to be done into this exploration of God as our Creator – our Father-Mother – but this brief idea of seeing myself and others as hashtags directing thought to God has really brightened my day!

Will you join me in cherishing all God’s hashtags?!

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